By the Long Distance Vibrators editorial team · Updated November 5, 2026
Which one should you get?
- Max 2 if your partner has (or is getting) Nora, or you want the most-proven option. It has over 300 buyer reviews.
- Gush 2 Motion if you want your hands free during a video call.
- Solace Pro if you want the toy to do all the work and do not mind the size or the $199 price.
- Edge 2 if you are interested in prostate play.
The 6 best long-distance toys for men
Prices and ratings from lovense.com.
1
Lovense Max 2
Contracting male masturbator · Best for: Men in long-distance relationships
The best-known male long-distance toy, and the partner to Nora.
Lovense's app-controlled stroker for men. It vibrates and contracts, and a partner can control it from anywhere. With Toy Sync, moving Max 2 makes paired Lovense toys, such as Nora, react in real time.
- Contraction as well as vibration
- Pairs with Nora for two-way play
- Over 300 buyer reviews
- Drawback: Heavy at 750 g
- Battery
- 95–215 min
- Full charge
- 100 min
- Water rating
- IPX6 water-resistant
- Loudest setting
- 52 dB
2
Lovense Gush 2 Motion
Hands-free penis massager · Best for: Men who want hands-free play
Vibrates and oscillates, with a motion sensor.
A hands-free massager that wraps around the head of the penis and both vibrates and oscillates. Its motion sensor can turn your movement into control signals for a partner's Lovense toy.
- Vibration plus oscillation
- Motion sensor can control her toy
- Buyers rate cleaning 4.9/5
- Drawback: Newer, with fewer reviews
- Battery
- 70–110 min
- Full charge
- 75 min
- Water rating
- IPX7 waterproof
- Weight
- 195 g
3
Lovense Solace Pro
Automatic thrusting stroker · Best for: Men who want the toy to do the work
Thrusts for you, with a battery of up to 14 hours.
A motorized stroker that does the thrusting for you, at up to 300 strokes a minute with an adjustable stroke length. It is the most expensive toy we compare and the one with the longest battery.
- Fully automatic thrusting
- Longest battery here, up to 14 hours
- Buyers rate stroke length 5.0/5
- Drawback: Heavy (1.2 kg) and the priciest
- Battery
- Up to 14 hours
- Full charge
- 135 min
- Speed
- Up to 300 strokes/min
- Water rating
- IPX4 splash-resistant
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Lovense Edge 2
Prostate massager · Best for: Prostate play, solo or partner-controlled
Adjustable and hands-free.
A dual-motor prostate massager with a head you can bend to the angle that suits you, and an arm that rests against the perineum. It stays in place hands-free, so a partner can take over from the app.
- Adjustable head holds its position
- Hands-free once in place
- Buyers rate vibration strength 5.0/5
- Drawback: Shorter battery than most toys here
- Battery
- 65–130 min
- Water rating
- IPX7 waterproof
- Weight
- 151 g
- Motors
- 2
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Lovense Calor
Heated male masturbator · Best for: A heated alternative to Max 2
Heats, vibrates, squeezes and senses depth.
A stroker that heats up, vibrates, squeezes and senses how deep you are. Like every Lovense toy, a partner can control it through the app.
- Heats up for a warmer feel
- Senses depth as well as vibrating
- Buyers rate vibration strength 5.0/5
- Drawback: Quietness rated only 4.2/5
- Battery
- 60–130 min
- Features
- Heating, vibration, depth sensor
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Lovense Diamo
Vibrating cock ring · Best for: Couples when you are together
A vibrating ring for when you are in the same room.
Lovense's app-controlled cock ring. The vibration is aimed at the perineum, and a partner wearing it during sex feels it too. A partner can also control it remotely.
- Both partners feel it during sex
- Buyers rate wearability 5.0/5
- Good battery for its size
- Drawback: Mainly for in-person sex
- Battery
- 2.5–3 hours
- Bluetooth range
- Up to 12 m
- Loudest setting
- 46 dB
Side-by-side comparison
Specs, prices and ratings from each product's page on lovense.com.
Lovense Max 2
4.6 (316)- Battery
- 95–215 min
- Full charge
- 100 min
- Bluetooth range
- —
- Water rating
- IPX6 water-resistant
- Weight
- 750 g
Lovense Gush 2 Motion
4.7 (61)- Battery
- 70–110 min
- Full charge
- 75 min
- Bluetooth range
- —
- Water rating
- IPX7 waterproof
- Weight
- 195 g
Lovense Solace Pro
4.8 (186)- Battery
- Up to 14 hours
- Full charge
- 135 min
- Bluetooth range
- —
- Water rating
- IPX4 splash-resistant
- Weight
- 1.2 kg
Lovense Edge 2
4.6 (301)- Battery
- 65–130 min
- Full charge
- —
- Bluetooth range
- —
- Water rating
- IPX7 waterproof
- Weight
- 151 g
Lovense Calor
4.7 (80)- Battery
- 60–130 min
- Full charge
- —
- Bluetooth range
- —
- Water rating
- —
- Weight
- —
Lovense Diamo
4.7 (79)- Battery
- 2.5–3 hours
- Full charge
- —
- Bluetooth range
- Up to 12 m
- Water rating
- —
- Weight
- —
| Toy | Battery | Full charge | Bluetooth range | Water rating | Weight | Rating | Price |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
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95–215 min | 100 min | — | IPX6 water-resistant | 750 g | 4.6 (316) | $89 |
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70–110 min | 75 min | — | IPX7 waterproof | 195 g | 4.7 (61) | $119 |
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Up to 14 hours | 135 min | — | IPX4 splash-resistant | 1.2 kg | 4.8 (186) | $199 |
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65–130 min | — | — | IPX7 waterproof | 151 g | 4.6 (301) | $119 |
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60–130 min | — | — | — | — | 4.7 (80) | $119 |
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2.5–3 hours | — | Up to 12 m | — | — | 4.7 (79) | $89 |
What to look for
Hands-free or handheld
Max 2 and Calor are strokers you hold. Gush 2 Motion and Solace Pro work hands-free, which is easier during a video call. Edge 2 is hands-free once it is in place.
Weight and size
Male toys are heavier than wearables. Max 2 weighs 750 grams and Solace Pro 1.2 kilograms; Gush 2 Motion is 195 grams.
Water resistance
Gush 2 Motion and Edge 2 are IPX7 waterproof. Max 2 is IPX6 water-resistant, and Solace Pro only IPX4, so keep it away from the shower.
Cleaning
Strokers with removable sleeves are easier to clean. Buyers rate Gush 2 Motion 4.9 out of 5 for ease of cleaning.
Frequently asked questions
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Is Solace Pro worth it over Max 2?
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